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My Personality Analysis: MBTI Theory

The Myer-Briggs Type Indicator is an examination of one’s own conscious thoughts and feelings, with the purpose of showing different psychological preferences in how people perceive the world around them and make decisions. Click the following link [MBTI Free Test] to take a brief test that will determine your MBTI personality type.

This test breaks it down into 16 different personality types.

  • The Architect: Imaginative and strategic thinkers with a plan for everything.
  • The Logician: Innovative inventors with an unquenchable thirst for knowledge.
  • The Commander: Bold, imaginative, and strong-willed leaders– always finding a way or making one.
  • The Debater: Smart and curious thinkers who cannot resist an intellectual challenge.
  • The Advocate: Quiet and mystical, yet very inspiring and tireless idealist.
  • The Mediator: Poetic, kind, and altruistic people, always eager to help a good cause.
  • The Protagonist: Charismatic and inspiring leaders, able to mesmerize their listeners.
  • The Campaigner: Enthusiastic, creative, and sociable free spirits, who can always find a reason to smile.
  • The Logistician: Practical and fact-minded individuals, who’s reliability cannot be doubted.
  • The Defender: Very dedicated and warm protectors, always ready to defend their loved ones.
  • The Executive: Excellent administrators, unsurpassed at managing things or people.
  • The Consul: Extraordinarily caring, social, and popular people, always eager to help.
  • The Virtuoso: Bold and practical experimenters, masters of all kinds of tools.
  • The Adventure: Flexible and charming artist, always ready to explore and experience something new.
  • The Entrepreneur: Smart, energetic, and very perceptive people, who enjoy living on the edge.
  • The Entertainer: Spontaneous, energetic, and enthusiastic people- life is never boring around them.

Taking a glance at this list, I’m sure you can categorize some people you know into the list above. The MTBI goes into much more depth, but this is just a basic explanation for each personality type.

So after taking the test, I fell under the “Advocate” role. Also known as “The Mystic” or “The Counselor”. My MBTI is INFJ-T. This stands for Introversion (I), Intuition (N), Feeling (F), and Judgement (J). Due to the rarity and complexity of the INFJ personality type, it only makes up 1-3% of the population. (-T) is a turbulent individual who is self-conscious and sensitive to stress. They are likely to experience a wide rant of emotions and to be success-driven, perfectionistic, and eager to improve.

An Advocate tends to see helping others as their purpose in life, and while they can be found doing charity work and engaging in rescue efforts, their real passion is to get to the heart of the issuance so that people need not be rescued at all. Advocates are creative with a vivid imagination and strong sense of compassion. They are insightful, seeing through dishonest and disingenuous behaviors. They are also able to how people and events are connect, and use that insight to get to the heart of the matter. They are inspiring and convincing. They are decisive and able to follow through on their ideas with willpower, conviction, and the planning necessary to see complex projects through to the end. They are determined and passionate. They are also altruistic and use their strengths for good. They can be sensitive, especially when someone criticizes or challenges their principles or values. They are highly vulnerable to criticism and conflict. Questioning their motives is the quickest way to get on their bad side. They are extremely private, and trusting new people can be a challenge. They are perfectionistic, often ignoring healthy and productive situations because they believe their may be something better down the road. They always need to have a cause, otherwise they’ll feel restless or disappointed. They can burn our easily if they don’t find a way to balance their ideals with the realities of day-to-day living.

When it comes to romantic relationships, Advocates look for something with depth and meaning. They will take the process of finding a partner seriously, and take the time necessary to find someone they truly click with. Once they’ve found someone, their relationship will reach a level of depth and sincerity that most people can only dream of. Getting to that point can be a challenge, since Advocates are perfectionistic and picky. They aren’t easily talked into something they don’t want. If a suitor tries to resort to manipulation or lying, an Advocate will see right through it, they have a low tolerance for inauthenticity. One of the things they find most important is establishing a genuine, deep connection with the people they care about. They cherish not just the act of being in a relationship, but what it means to become one with another person in mind, body, and soul. Advocates year for authenticity and sincerity in their friendships as well. They are unlikely to go for friendships of circumstance such as workplace social circles or chatting it up with the local barista, where the only thing they have in common in day-to-day familiarity. They seek people who share their passions, interests, and ideologies. They are likely to end up abandoning healthy friendships in their infancy in search of more perfect compatibilities.

Advocates struggle to begin a career early on because they see ten wildly different paths forward, each with its own intrinsic rewards, alluring but also heartbreaking because it means abandoning so much else. They need to find meaning in their work, to know that they are helping and connecting with people. They crave creativity too, and the ability to use their insight to connect events and situations. They are clever and can function in and work place, but need to be able to exercise their insightfulness and independence, learn and grow alongside people they are helping, and contribute to the well-being of humanity on a personal level.

Career Matches: Teacher, Artist, Writer, Actor, Physician, Musician, Psychologist, Psychiatrist, Consultant, Human Resources, Alternative Medicine, Missionary, Entrepreneur, Social Worker, Non-Profit/Advocacy. Health care, Human Resources, Social Work, Clergy, and the Arts are the best fields for this personality type.

Visit MBTI Free Test to take the brief test to find your MBTI personality type. Comment your personality type below! Thank you for reading.

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Motivational Monday

“There is no elevator to success. You have to take the stairs.”

So, I’m no expert on leading a successful life, but I can assure you that there is no secret to success. We all have the same 24 hours in a day, it’s what we do with those hours that count. I’m sure most of you have heard the quote, “Do something today your future self will be proud of.” When the perfect opportunity presents itself, you want to be ready. Spend your time preparing for success. Listed below are five simple steps you can follow daily to make your day a little more successful.

  1. Get an early start. On average we need seven to nine hours of sleep to function at our best. So make sure you try to go to bed at a decent hour, or so you’ll at least have enough time to get a good night’s sleep. There are some days when we want to sleep in and relax, but in between relaxing at least try to do something productive you’ll thank yourself for later.
  2. Set a deadline. For those who are procrastinators like myself, this may help a lot. Deadlines push me to get things done, so try to get in the habit of setting them for yourself. You’ll be surprised just how much more you can accomplish!
  3. Stop taking score. Don’t compare your life to anyone else’s. What matters to you? What would you like to achieve? Your life is your own, and your journey will be unique. Do the best that you can, and live your life to the absolute fullest. There’s no limit to what you can do.
  4. Take care of your personal health. Your body and mind are important and your main priority should be taking great care of them. Try to be active for at least an hour a day, even if you break that into intervals. Try to eat better and not skip out on meals. Also take care of your mental health. Let go of anything toxic in your life! Pray and meditate. Treat yourself every now and then. Sometimes we can be so stressed, that we forget to enjoy the little things in life.
  5. Living within means. One of the most important things I would suggest is creating a budget. Even if you don’t have many bills or responsibilities, it’ll help you keep track of what you spend your money on. This way you are able to compare your monthly expenses to how much you make. You can see where you can cut back and even have room to save a little more money. I’m all for splurging, treating yourself, and living your best life– but live within your means. If you want that beautiful luxurious car, work for it. Set yourself up to where you are in the position to have whatever you want, without struggling for it.

So, what will you do today to make your future self proud?

Do You Know?

During season 10, episode 17 of Grey’s Anatomy Christina Yang experiences two very different universes on a quest to answer the question, “Do you know who are you?”

Do you know who you are? Do you know what’s happened to you? Do you want to live this way?

I’ve been on my own quest for self-realization. When I was younger, I always seemed so sure of the person I would become. Of course, I’m aware of my redeeming qualities and my fatal flaws. I can tell you all of my pet peeves as well as my quirks and habits. I know the things that I absolutely love, and the things I can’t stand at all. I’m aware that my Libra Moon is constantly trying to dominate my Scorpio Sun. In and out, I know who I am as a person. I’ve never had to question who I was a person, I just wonder who I’m meant to be. What greater purpose do I serve? What is the reason for my existence? My objective? I used to be so sure of who I would become, and maybe I’m still just as sure. The reality of things have just set in and I have to realize that my dreams aren’t just dreams anymore. I have to chance to alter my reality and truly take control of my life. I used to be so excited, so sure. Now, I’m just terrified. I have to ask myself the same questions Christina Yang posed, “Do you know who you are? Do you know what’s happened to you? Do you want to live this way?” Think about who you are… What little things make up this phenomenal person you are? What to you stand for? Who do you love and who loves you just as genuinely? What has happened that has changed you as a person? How have you learn and grown from there? Have you accepted your situation? What do you need to change and are you willing to do it? Do you know?


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Motivational Monday

“May your choices reflect your hopes, not your fears.”

— Nelson Mandela

What is holding you back from the life that you so greatly deserve? Simply, nothing but fear. The unexpected is terrifying. You have to take that leap before you fly, but you are more afraid of falling. We go over the possible outcomes and consequences a million times over in our head. It’s normal to have doubts, to be afraid. Deep down you know what is best for you though. You know what you have to do. So just do it. Make a choice to change your life for the better. Choose the life you deserve and don’t settle for things out of fear. You should only be afraid of living life without really living.


18 Facts About Aquarius


Dates: January 20 February 18

Element: Air

Ruling Planet: UranusSaturn

Positive Qualities: Communicative, just, curious, original, open-minded, fair, logical, and imaginative.

Negative Qualities: Unpredictable, detached, self-destructive, out-of-touch, irrational, and inefficient.

Most compatible signs: Leo, Sagittarius, Libra, Gemini, and Aries.

  1. You can impress an Aquarius by making them think and laugh.
  2. Aquarius can get easily bored, they need something new, unique, and out of the ordinary to keep them entertained.
  3. Aquarius often find it hard to communicate their extremely complex thoughts and feelings.
  4. Aquarius is always observing and analyzing everything around them.
  5. Aquarius is strongly independent and despises the feeling of being held back or told what to do.
  6. Aquarius are social people but always feel like they never quite fit in
  7. An Aquarius goes really silent when they’re annoyed or just have no words to express how upset they are.
  8. Aquarius have a skill for reading others personalities.
  9. Aquarius are quiet thinkers. You’d be surprised by how many things they think about on a daily basis.
  10. Aquarius is a natural born leader, they don’t like to follow.
  11. An Aquarius is not really picky when it comes to people, they just sense who they can vibe with.
  12. Aquarius has the calmest exterior, but the darkest interior.
  13. If an Aquarius cares about you, you never have to question their loyalty to you.
  14. An Aquarius will never change themselves for anyone. Take it or leave it.
  15. An Aquarius always thinks logically, not emotionally.
  16. Aquarius like that deep connection with a person, where they can talk about anything from cooking to politics and there’s an exciting meeting of minds.
  17. An Aquarius will never forget how you treated them. Ever.
  18. Aquarius’ speak their mind. They are fierce and unafraid.

Own Your Voice.

Studies show that the average woman speaks about 20,000 words per day. While the average man speaks only about 7,000 words. Studies and many anecdotes also show that when a woman is outnumbered by men they tend to be interrupted, talked over, and shut down for speaking out. On average a woman can speak about 20,000 words per day, but how many of those words are actually heard?

“When you own your voice, you own your power.” Words are powerful. Your words are powerful. Never be afraid to speak up and own your voice, own your power. If there’s something that you passionately love or passionately hate, talk (or shout) about it shamelessly. If you have an answer, an idea, any brilliant thought let it be heard and don’t let anyone steal your moment. If you want to say something to someone, say it. Own your voice, own your power. You will have moments when you say the wrong thing, we all do and it’s okay. You will be afraid, but don’t let fear silence you. You may stammer or choke, but get those words out. Be heard. Own your voice, own your power. Be heard.